Monday, September 29, 2008

I am the music man :)

I usually play guitar later on in the evenings. My digs mates Nick and Bret are such awesome guys. They never yell at me or tell me to stop playing or get angry with me or anything! Granted, I do close my door and try to be as quiet as possible.

My family is very muscially inclined so i suppose that this is where my passion for music comes from. I find that playing my guitar relaxes me after a long day of stress because of either assignments due or upcoming tests, or even just a long day of lectures. Although I consider myself a beginner at guitar having only learned to play at the beginning of the year, i must say that i do find a few minutes to practice my chords and songs.

My younger sister is truly gifted at guitar playing. She is a massive inspriation to me. We don't get to see one another all that often since she is at NMMU (Nelson Mandela Metropolitain University) in Port Elizabeth. When we do manage to make it home to Port Alfred on the same weekend, we "jam" up a storm together! My gorgeous nephew is a keen guitarist at the age of two already. This particular night, he provided live intertainment, not to be missed!

"Trackback"

Hi Jess,

I found your letter to be very real. This is why I identified with you – it.
As tough as things seem at the time, in hindsight, the issues at present really are not all that huge are they?

I like the way you expressed the fact that in order to learn a lesson, or how to overcome something, you need to experience things personally, first hand for yourself. I fully agree with you. I am older; I will be 27 in November and I am first year! Be inspired! This in itself is a challenge, but not nearly as challenging in reality as what I had originally thought it would be in my mind.
Our biggest fears exist in our minds. We are our own worst enemies!

I am proud of you for rising up and facing life, instead of allowing yourself to be swallowed up by hard times. The truth is that we all experience hardships. Your stories will help someone else one day! Keep pressing, hoping and believing amazing things for your life.

Best regards,
Michelle Rowe

Letter to my younger self

Dear Mickey mouse,

It was lovely seeing your Aunt and hearing how well you are doing!
I am proud of you for finally deciding to study. You must not feel intimidated by your age my friend. Instead, see yourself as older and wiser!

I was remembering when we were in England over Christmas, visiting your sister and her husband. I know it was a confusing time for you deciding which course to take. I am overjoyed that Journalism and Media studies have become a reality for you!
Your first term at Rhodes must have been tiring commuting between Port Alfred and Grahamstown. I am certain that since you have been living in your digs house, you must have plenty more time to focus on assignments and studies in general. If I can give you advice from when I was a student, you should probably have looked into finding a digs house at the beginning of the year.

How does it feel to be a first year at the age of 27? It is not as challenging as you thought that it would be right? I believe that fellow students are intrigued by your life, non-bias and friendly towards you, regardless. You should embrace new experiences. Get involved in everything that interests you, that you possibly have time for.
I am sure that you were tempted many times to party at night with the crowd. I think that you have done a fine job at keeping focused and having faith strong enough to remain true to God. In all things honor Him as He as he has honored you. I am so happy that you are part of a cell group. It is a privilege to have the support of a group of wonderful girls!

Have you made any plans for the December holidays? It would be lovely if you could come to Cape Town. We can shop!

Love always,
Michelle

The cloud of all emotions: The Common Room


Without doubt the most enterprising place at res for me is the common room. Here, students engage, debate, fight, and even sleep. Different emotions are also showcased in the common room - from light-hearted moments such as identifying the res slouch potato and catching a student watching porn in the deep night, to more emotional moments, of outbursts and honest debates.

In my entries I am supposed to comment on issues which have been raised in the lounge (the common room) at my res, but lately I haven't spent much time there due to certain incidents that have happened in my res this term. So as an introduction to my various posts related to the common room, I will write on some of my most memorable moments in the common room thus far.

I thought I had seen all that is eccentric at Rhodes during the first semester, from all sorts of demonstrations, students reviving the hippie age with their choice of attire, men wearing skirts, and overwhelming history lecturers. Back to the common room. The slouch potato my resmates had identified was beginning show his mettle during the week preceding the June exams (Swot week). He would take all his books, and study directly infront of the television, whilst watching a movie. His frail-looking physique added to the amusement of this unusual sight, which was clinched with the bemused look he gave us when he walked in the common room while some of us were watching sport, and someone was sitting on his marked couch. Not to be outdone, the renowned drinking master at our res decided to gives his drinking friends a guided tour around our res, mumbling what happens in the rooms at res. He's had many other humourous episodes at res, and these characters are what makes a common room such an endearing place on occasions.

The common room has also been a place which has hosted numerous res functions, from Perve parties, to house braais. It is during these functions that I have decided to let go of myself, and savour the moments. In my tipsy stupor during these events, I would trek in my most vocal state, to the local clubs. I certainly do not excuse my occasional indulgence at the night life, as I rarely go out. But when I do go out, I make the moment worthwhile.

Tensions have been steadily building up in the common room through the year, and recently, they have burst dramtically, hence my reason for not spending much time in the common room anymore. I have been mystified at the amount of taunting some of my resmates have subjected themselves to, regarding English football league teams, and have always believed that the taunting would lead to a fight eventually. My instincts proved correct, as a fight did recently occur in the common room as a result of the taunting. I dislike fighting, and I maintain that the most supreme form of intimidation is the only understandable reason to fight. The pair were obviously provoked by the aftermath of the election of the 2009 Housecom, which was not met with the acceptance of some students at res. I'll admit, my eyes were also opened during the election, and I had my first hands-on experience on the biggest taboo facing this country.

My experiences or visits to the common room this year have created mixed emotions. The burst of excitement that surrounds the gentlemen in the room when a hot lady walks past our res, or the bitterness and anger which is apparent in scathing debates and general comments by some students, enhance my assertion on the common room being the cloud of all emotions at res.

Litha "Mpondz"

Saturday, September 27, 2008

Words of wisdom to young Litha

September 26, 2008
Young man

Your wisdom may be questioned by your peers, your reserved self criticised as being too mature for your age, but have comfort in the reality that such qualities should ease you into the tertiary atmosphere and enable you to enjoy a fulfilling period in your first year.
I have had a fairly successful year so far at Rhodes, and I encourage you not to let go of your wisdom. Such wisdom shone upon our father’s death, where you overcame this personal tragedy in an exemplary way. There are plenty of hardships in university, where a build up of tests and deadlines can create high amounts of stress. There is also an uncontrollable amount of partying, which will test your wisdom. Your ability to live a balanced lifestyle will prove pivotal in your first year.
I had taken my support system for granted before this year, but as the year unfolded, I have seen countless situations which have previously been described to me - I have perhaps have taken the advice on girls given by my mother a bit too seriously. You should loosen up at university, whilst maintaining your controlled lifestyle, so you can fully enjoy your tertiary experience.
There are periods here when you lose all motivation, and wish that you could stay in your own bubble and not work. I have adopted a minor but thought-provoking episode in dealing with this. Remember when uTa’mkhulu teased that we would sleep in the chickens’ barn should we fail a grade at school? Well, I took that statement seriously, and it has served as motivation for me to be diligent in my work.
Rhadebe, brace yourself for a path of endless possibilities at university. Maintain your talents, as you will surely make use of them here. Stay the person you are, and remain positive about your life, as you are destined to have a fulfilling first year at university.

Regards
Litha

Friday, September 26, 2008

Dear Innocence

When I got out of the car onto the Rhodes campus, my mind had been filled with misconceptions that did not last long. Remember the day when you almost broke your leg falling out of the tree? You told me it felt like you had lost all control of your body. At some stage of your varsity career you will feel the same except it will be a feeling governing your whole life. Some days are harder than others; you will not only miss your family but what is comfortable to you, take a little bit of your comfort zone with you and make your new space your own. Chances are you will get caught up in the hype pace of University life….do not let that derail you. Create happy moments; make time for yourself and when you fall do not be too proud to admit defeat and try again. Disappointment comes more than once, take things in your stride. Believe in yourself and stay who you are, there will be somebody who will appreciate and respect you for it. Never compromise on anything you have been taught to believe was right and that has shaped your decision making so far. Never change to suit the situation because you will loose yourself. Only change…..for the better, do not compromise your values and your morals to accommodate anything that is in direct contravention of them, you will regret it. If it does not feel right then chances are it is not. And remember to ask yourself if you are happy being somebody you are not and if changing who you are is worth it. Love and appreciate the little things because it is your attitude towards yourself that determines other’s attitude towards you.

With love
Abongile Zizi

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